Domestic Violence Awareness
October 1st, 2008An awards ceremony was held at the State Capitol Wednesday to launch Domestic Violence Awareness month in Oklahoma, as more people are stepping forward to help those victims.
“Law enforcement, prosecutors, judges and other social systems such as the Department of Human Services and the Health Department, the medical and faith communities are being trained in record numbers and as such that the response to victims across our state is improving all the time,” Marcia Smith, the executive director of the Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault, told the crowd gathered in the Capitol’s Blue Room.
Not all the news is good. As domestic violence awareness month begins, Oklahoma is ranked fourth in the nation for the number of women who are murdered.

“That is just totally unacceptable. Our rate is nearly double the national average,” Oklahoma Attorney General Drew Edmondson told me in an interview after the event.
He says that usually many signs are manifested before domestic violence results in a woman’s death.
“It just demonstrates how important it is to intervene early. To make sure there’s shelters available and services available. To break the cycle of violence before it results in death,” Edmondson said.
He also feels the cycle of violence is continued when children see their mother become a victim of domestic violence.
“Children who were exposed to violence tend to be the ones who are violent on dates, tend to be the ones who are violent when they first get married or in a long term relationship, and those acts of violence will then escalate,” said Edmondson.
Janet Peery is the C.E.O. of the Y.W.C.A. in Oklahoma City. Her organization takes in women who are trying to escape violence at home.
She told me much work needs to be done to let all victims of domestic abuse know that help is available to them.
“The Department of Justice was quoted that they say at least 50 percent go unreported, and so, we still have so much of a message to get out, to let people know there are safe options for them and to let victims know it isn’t their fault,” said Peery
Family and friends can help by being observant for signs of abuse.
“Some of the signs and symptoms are that victim is being isolated from those families and friends, so, all of sudden they can’t come around. They start seeing extreme jealousy being portrayed, putting the victim down and embarrassing them in front of a group,” Peery said.
Several events are planned this month to raise awareness about domestic violence, including a special Capitol Dome lighting on October 15th.
For a complete list of events, please follow this link to the Attorney General’s website.
http://www.oag.state.ok.us/oagweb.nsf/0/D8E2951A24BEF64E862574D5004C9C7D!OpenDocument





